Conversations about alcohol don’t have to be uncomfortable. At Tri-Town Youth Services, we believe they can be honest, caring, and full of opportunities to connect. Underage drinking is one of the most common and preventable risks facing young people today, and talking about it early and often makes a real difference.

Prevention starts at home. When parents set clear expectations, model responsible choices, and keep communication open, kids are far less likely to drink. It might not always feel that way, but research consistently shows that parents are the number one influence on whether a teen decides to use alcohol or not. Those everyday moments —a car ride, a shared meal, or a late-night talk — can have more impact than you realize.

Alcohol is still the most widely used substance among youth, and while it can seem harmless or “normal” in social settings, the risks are real. The teenage brain is still developing, especially the areas that control judgment, memory, and impulse control. Drinking too early can interrupt that growth and increase the risk of depression, anxiety, and addiction later on.

Binge drinking, having several drinks in a short amount of time, brings even greater danger. It can lead to blackouts, risky behavior, accidents, and, in severe cases, alcohol poisoning. Signs of alcohol poisoning include confusion, vomiting, slow or irregular breathing, and loss of consciousness. If someone shows these symptoms, call 911 immediately. Quick action can save a life.

There are also legal consequences to consider. In Connecticut, it’s illegal for anyone under 21 to purchase, possess, or consume alcohol. It’s also against the law for adults to knowingly allow underage drinking in their home. Under the state’s Social Host Law, any adult who permits minors to drink on their property can face fines, criminal charges, and even civil penalties if harm occurs. Even a “supervised” gathering with alcohol can have serious consequences, not only legal, but emotional and personal if someone gets hurt.

And while it’s easy to believe “just one drink” isn’t a big deal, even a small amount of alcohol can impair driving. For teens, that can be a deadly mistake. Alcohol-related crashes remain one of the leading causes of death among young people in the U.S., and every decision behind the wheel matters.

The good news is that prevention works. Most teens in Connecticut choose not to drink, and community norms are shifting toward health, honesty, and safety. Open communication, clear boundaries, and meaningful connections all help reinforce those positive choices. Talk about alcohol early and often, even before high school. Be clear about your expectations and why they matter. Keep alcohol out of reach at home. Host substance-free gatherings that show fun doesn’t need to include drinking. Know where your teen is, who they’re with, and how they’re getting home.

We’re here to support you with programs, resources, and tools that strengthen families and empower youth to make confident, healthy choices. Together, we can keep our community safe, one conversation at a time.